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Kathleen Janoski's avatar

It's offensive how much influence Swift has on young girls.

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Mark Oshinskie's avatar

It's worse than that. She has many fans in their 20s and 30s.

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Beckadee's avatar

And some parents of these kids are Swifties. I don't get it.

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Karen Bandy's avatar

I think the moms are the type of mom who wants to be best friends with their daughter instead of being a mom.

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TriTorch's avatar

From Blblical Man (I know the title is jarring)

Your Daughter Will Become A Whore

(Because You Were Too Weak To Be Called One)

The brutal truth about why your mother's judgment saved you, and your "kindness" will destroy her

I watched her scroll through her daughter's Instagram.

Crop top. Duck lips. Comment section full of flame emojis from men old enough to know better.

She's thirteen.

"I don't want to shame her," mom whispers. "I want her to feel empowered."

Crap.

Your mother knew better.

She called them whores.

The girls with:

- Skirts too short

- Makeup too thick

- Boys too many

- Reputations too loose

You hated her for it.

- Called her judgmental

- Called her toxic

- Called her outdated

But your mother's cruelty was a shield.

Her judgment was armor.

Her "toxic shame" was a wall between you and a world that devours soft girls.

Look at your daughter now:

She's learning the new curriculum:

- Trading dignity for likes

- Selling skin for validation

- Learning her worth in DMs

- Measuring love in emojis

You're so proud of being "sex positive."

So enlightened about "body autonomy."

So educated about "empowerment."

While your daughter learns to sell herself cheaper than any street walker.

At least they charge cash.

She gives it away for hearts.

Your mother knew:

- Every girl is one validation away from ruin

- One "you're not like other girls" from destruction

- One "you're so mature for your age" from becoming prey

But you?

You teach "self-expression."

You celebrate "confidence."

You praise "body positivity."

While old men lick their lips and type "so pretty" on your baby's photos.

Your mother's hard words built walls.

Your soft words build graves.

She knew:

- Reputation is female currency

- Dignity is feminine power

- Modesty is tactical warfare

- Judgment is preventive medicine

But you taught your daughter:

- "Don't let them shame you"

- "Express yourself freely"

- "Your body, your choice"

- "Ignore the haters"

Congratulations.

You protected her from your mother's judgment.

And fed her to wolves instead.

Here's the raw truth:

Your mother called those girls whores because she saw their futures:

- Empty beds after empty nights

- Validation addiction at 40

- Beauty fading faster than options

- Worth measured in body count

She saw what you're too weak to see:

A world that buys girls wholesale and sells them back broken.

Finish it here: https://wilderreport.substack.com/p/your-daughter-will-become-a-whore

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TiredCitizen's avatar

Spot on! I look at girls now and they look at act worse than any street walker ever did. One of the "body positivity" shills Lizzo after telling girls you can be MORBIDLY obese and it is okay is now parading her weight loss (or Ozempic loss). I wrote her once on her Instagram page "well, what are you saying now?" Of course, no response.

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CMCM's avatar

How things have changed. In 1966 when I was a junior in high school, girls' skirt styles got a bit shorter and some "daring" skirts were perhaps an inch or two above the knees, still fairly long by today's standards. It was fashionable to wear the shorter shirts with a rib knit turtle neck sweater and matching leggings, and I wore this kind of outfit to school one day. I was stopped in the halls by the principal, who told me to kneel on the ground to see if my skirt touched the ground. It didn't by about an inch, and the principal told me to go home and change the skirt. This was just a regular public high school, too! At that time, everyone would have been horrified by what high school kids are allowed to wear at school today.

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TiredCitizen's avatar

I was at the tail end of that era. I had a pretty Sunday dress that had a slightly dipped neckline with big shoulder pads (I so miss the 1980’s!).

My dad FREAKED because he thought the neckline would reveal more than it should. That was only if I bent way over which my hand did (and still does) go to my top to keep it close needed or not.

Times were sure different. Clothing just shows our morals and values and lack of a two parent home.

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rolandttg's avatar

Watched "Night Moves " last night, with Gene Hackman and Melodie Griffith, age 17 Severl nude scenes, and she plays exactly the young girl/woman you describe here. . Her first big role ( 2 previous movies, one at 16, also nude scenes). Poor Melodie was pimped out early and often, and battled addiction , and multiple marriages (often to Don Johnson, whom she met when she was 14 and him 22) .

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MayBella82's avatar

Wow… very powerful.

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Karen Bandy's avatar

Thanks Tri Torch!

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John of Oregon Fame's avatar

Karen, like my daughter and 3 of our granddaughters.

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Karen Bandy's avatar

That’s sad.

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Beckadee's avatar

Bingo!

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rolandttg's avatar

Let's see how many want to puke when they find out she's no stranger to Andrenochrome.

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Beckadee's avatar

I remember watching her introduced at the CMA's - whatever their award for upcoming star was. She was introduced by Carrie Underwood. No longer is she a country star. I believe she sold her soul long ago. Same as Katie Perry.

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MayBella82's avatar

I’ve notice a lot of celebrities have not been getting theirs…Meg Ryan looked awful in the ad with Billy Crystal even with all her plastic surgery.

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rolandttg's avatar

telling, isn't it? Have you seen some of the old celebs in the tabloids? Alan Alda? Whoa. I know they are old, but so are we, and my wife looks better than the vast majority of actresses her age.

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RunningLogic's avatar

And beyond! It’s bizarre 😕

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TiredCitizen's avatar

I know of one mother who takes her 7 year old to a concert

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CeeMcG's avatar

35, never married, no kids, one failed relationship after another. No wonder Gen Z girls aren’t reproducing if they emulate Taylor Swift.

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Kathleen Janoski's avatar

I always tell women that if a guy doesn't marry you in 2 years, he will never do it.

So many women live with guys for years and wish and hope if this is the year that he will surprise her with an engagement ring for Valentine's Day.

Knew women who "waited" for 5 years, 8 years, and one for even 10 years.

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MatthewJohn's avatar

If you're getting the milk for free, why buy the cow?

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Kathleen Janoski's avatar

...and getting their laundry done and meals prepared.

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CMCM's avatar

The women's liberation movement that began in the 1970s turned women into fools.

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alongername's avatar

The funny thing is ........ Mine has been waiting for 10 years .

But........ I am pretty sure that many have gotten married and DIVORCED during that time . Or squabling and/or miserable constantly.

We still are hugging every morning when meeting in the kitchen.

So.

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Kathleen Janoski's avatar

I referring to the women who want to get married.

Not the ones who are OK with the status quo.

Big difference.

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alongername's avatar

Many of my comments are slightly "tongue in cheek " :-)

hmmmmmm maybe that is why my meals are still delicious .

I have found that women like a little humor . Especially the married ones i meet .

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Jaci's avatar

And the Disney princesses...not healthy thinking for girls!

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MayBella82's avatar

I have to admit that I love Mulan. Some of the Disney movies have a good message…don’t care for the ones that have been made in recent years. I kept the good ones to watch with grandkids.

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Dena's avatar

This from Tom Renz - that Costco meats are injected with vaccines by the rancher ( I’m not the bot): https://x.com/renztom/status/1888696802976972934?s=61

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RunningLogic's avatar

Wow 😳 Thanks for sharing this! Yet more fakes—shame on Costco!! 😡

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Truth 101's avatar

Thanks for the information (and for not being a bot. 🙂) I just bought some salmon - not from Costco. I am thinking I should check with the grocer to see if their supplier injects the salmon with vaccines- mRNA or other . .

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Garner's avatar

Yeah - old ladies too. I was in the grocery store of our smallish town and an older-than-me lady was in line ahead of me and got all excited looking at the magazines on display. She turned to me and said "Are you a Swifty?" In confusion, I asked, "A what?" She said, "A Taylor Swift fan!" When I shook my head she looked shocked.

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RunningLogic's avatar

That pride they seem to have of belonging to a special club is nauseating 😝

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Robin Esau's avatar

And worse is the applause of the moms. They, too, think she's great. 🙄

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CMCM's avatar

Especially now that she's 35, she's really too old to be appealing to that young group. She has already had quite a long string of boyfriends. Many of her young fans aren't even old enough to date yet! Not good.

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BBS's avatar

Swift has been replaced by Sabrina Carpenter.

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cltwilson1's avatar

If that is her real name!

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