As a woman who is highly rational and logical, not maternal, very competitive, but also quite feminine and very much attracted to men only, I don't tick "usual" boxes, either, but I honestly could not care less whether or not "someone gives me the space to be me". Other people do not dictate my space, I do. No one needs to give it to me,…
As a woman who is highly rational and logical, not maternal, very competitive, but also quite feminine and very much attracted to men only, I don't tick "usual" boxes, either, but I honestly could not care less whether or not "someone gives me the space to be me". Other people do not dictate my space, I do. No one needs to give it to me, the space to be me is inherently mine to occupy or not. If I choose to let someone else define it, then I would be letting them define me and would only exist in relation to them and their expectations.
As a woman who is highly rational and logical, not maternal, very competitive, but also quite feminine and very much attracted to men only, I don't tick "usual" boxes, either, but I honestly could not care less whether or not "someone gives me the space to be me". Other people do not dictate my space, I do. No one needs to give it to me, the space to be me is inherently mine to occupy or not. If I choose to let someone else define it, then I would be letting them define me and would only exist in relation to them and their expectations.