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I found myself in line the other day with a "nurse educator" and absolutely unprompted she started talking about how great the vaccine is. Went to lunch with a friend and all she could talk about was Covid Covid Covid....and I live in a pretty conservative town.

I am exhausted by humanity, I really am. I've reached the point where I can't stand being around anyone and am thinking about becoming a hermit (I'm retired so this is an actual option).

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I agree with Alabama. 13 years ago, my husband and I were evaluating fertility treatments after I was dx with POF … weirdly after receiving a “mandatory” EUA vaccine during pregnancy with child #1 … i now find the dx even more “baffling” than before. Anywho, we got to the point of signing the consent to treat, etc, forms with a doctor who specialized in the most challenging fertility cases … we were all set to go until I got to page 12 which was where we had to decide what to do with “excess embryos”. A horrifying description, but, nonetheless perhaps medically accurate. And the choices were implantation, destruction, donation, or the Hans Solo, (as I called it), perpetual freezing. All four were a hard stop for me bc 1) I wasn’t going to implant them all, because, after all, we only wanted 1 more child, 2) it was a horrifying thought to me to destroy them because they were still my children, 3) donation was a hard no because these were my children, who were wanted, and 4) just no to perpetual freezing.

At that point, I made my peace, and simply thanked God for my one perfect child. One child was clearly God’s plan for me.

I know that IVF is right for some people, and has brought many loved children into the world, but, for me, for the aforementioned reasons, it was not a morally sound solution for me. I’m glad that Alabama has it’s head on straight.

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