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Julie Ann B's avatar

My 93 year old healthy mom has never had a vax in her entire life but my sister, who lives in the same city, accompanies her to all her appointments and has told the office manager of the clinic that she will not be taking any vaxxes nor should they ask her. In addition, she has told them she will not wear a mask for her appointments as it’s distracting to her, uncomfortable and with age-related hearing loss, does not allow her to focus on instructions. It hasn’t been an issue since my sister set the boundaries and I urge others to be bold and stand up for your elderly parents who could be easily manipulated.

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Heterodox Introvert's avatar

You are SO fortunate!

My sister, geographically closer, made early jab appointments for my 90 year old manipulable mother. I pray a lot. Fantasize about raking my sister over the coals but it will likely have to stay in that realm. Won’t do any good. So so much anger and, underneath, unspeakable sadness.

Yep, lots o’ prayer. Treasure your like minded sister!!!!!!

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Julie Ann B's avatar

Yes I know I am very fortunate. Prior to moving away from my hometown where my mom lives I handled all her healthcare needs after my dad passed away 24 years ago. My siblings all agreed because I was the only person in the family who had a career in healthcare. But my sister took over after I moved and has been proactive and very diligent in helping my mom get what she needs and not coerced into something she doesn’t need or want. I will pray for all those out there who aren’t as fortunate as our family to be on the same page in these trying times.

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ConcernedGrammy's avatar

My situation is the same Heterodox. Vigilant prayers for my 92 yo MIL. Jabbed at least 2x, probably more. Her health has declined fast, but without a doubt, her impending death will be attributed to "old age" only.

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Sharon Beautiful Evening's avatar

BEAUTIFUL - thank you for sharing this bit of "common sense" advice. I have ALWAYS said that "common sense" is anything BUT common...and what has played out in the world for the past 3 years, proves my edict all too true.

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Karen's avatar

I love this so much.

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