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Elisa's avatar

This is also seen in the church. People call it The Feminization of The Church and it has all the hallmarks of a middle aged woman who is tired of fighting- she wants no confrontation, she accepts anything except what crosses her warped sense of peace, and she (ironically) will fight about that. All of her standards are self based. For example, if you tell her she is pretty or wise, she basks in judgement. If the judgement is negative, she blows up saying “You shouldn’t judge!” It’s ludicrous, but so widespread.

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RunningLogic's avatar

And they are also the first to judge OTHERS!

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Elisa's avatar

Yes. Wrongly and harshly, which (I believe) is why they are so terrified of judgement from others-- They assume we all have cruel standards.

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RunningLogic's avatar

I think you’re right about that.

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