There were some things that needed to be changed from the old model/ways but things went waaaaay too far 😕 So much damage done, hopefully we’ll be able to start repairing it now 🙏
There were some things that needed to be changed from the old model/ways but things went waaaaay too far 😕 So much damage done, hopefully we’ll be able to start repairing it now 🙏
That reminds me of another dating problem. One advantage of the old model is that it was a set of rules that everyone knew. Then ’60s-’70s feminism came along with new rules, but they never replaced all the old rules, even among feminists. So a man can’t really be sure what rules a woman expects, resulting in awkward situations. “Independent feminists” can get miffed if men don’t offer to pay, or are turned off if the man is too deferential.
Add that to all the common female paradoxes (“I won’t tell you because you should already know,” “Talk about your feelings but don’t appear weak,” etc.) and no wonder guys throw up their hands and stop pursuing the Rachel Druckers of the world.
There were some things that needed to be changed from the old model/ways but things went waaaaay too far 😕 So much damage done, hopefully we’ll be able to start repairing it now 🙏
That reminds me of another dating problem. One advantage of the old model is that it was a set of rules that everyone knew. Then ’60s-’70s feminism came along with new rules, but they never replaced all the old rules, even among feminists. So a man can’t really be sure what rules a woman expects, resulting in awkward situations. “Independent feminists” can get miffed if men don’t offer to pay, or are turned off if the man is too deferential.
Add that to all the common female paradoxes (“I won’t tell you because you should already know,” “Talk about your feelings but don’t appear weak,” etc.) and no wonder guys throw up their hands and stop pursuing the Rachel Druckers of the world.