To better defend the children - From the wisdom of Corrie ten Boom’s father:
“So the line had stuck in my head. “Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine.
And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, …
To better defend the children - From the wisdom of Corrie ten Boom’s father:
“So the line had stuck in my head. “Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine.
And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, “Father, what is sexsin?” He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing.
At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor.
“Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?” he said.
I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning.
“It’s too heavy,” I said.
“Yes,” he said. “And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now you must trust me to carry it for you.”
- from The Hiding Place: The Triumphant Story of Corrie Ten Boom
*We are asking our children to carry loads that are way too heavy for them. They should not be forced, as children, to see and feel the world through the lens of adults. Innocence is worth protecting and worth fighting for. We need to do our part as parents and friends to carry certain things for them until they are old enough to bear the load.
We are not even asking, we are demanding that they do that. And it seems that the reason that we do that is because we do not want to carry that burden until they are old enough to bear it themselves, as in the excerpt. Instead, we refuse to carry it because it is an annoyance to do so, that it is something that we can get out of doing, and so we do, and the children, all too often OUR children, must bear it instead.
So we make up reasons that it must be done by them instead of us. We rationalize here, there, and everywhere to respond to the question of 'why?'
As Robert Heinlein so correctly put it, "Man is not a rational animal. He is a rationalizing animal." There is a world of difference between the two...
To better defend the children - From the wisdom of Corrie ten Boom’s father:
“So the line had stuck in my head. “Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine.
And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, “Father, what is sexsin?” He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing.
At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor.
“Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?” he said.
I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning.
“It’s too heavy,” I said.
“Yes,” he said. “And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now you must trust me to carry it for you.”
- from The Hiding Place: The Triumphant Story of Corrie Ten Boom
*We are asking our children to carry loads that are way too heavy for them. They should not be forced, as children, to see and feel the world through the lens of adults. Innocence is worth protecting and worth fighting for. We need to do our part as parents and friends to carry certain things for them until they are old enough to bear the load.
We are not even asking, we are demanding that they do that. And it seems that the reason that we do that is because we do not want to carry that burden until they are old enough to bear it themselves, as in the excerpt. Instead, we refuse to carry it because it is an annoyance to do so, that it is something that we can get out of doing, and so we do, and the children, all too often OUR children, must bear it instead.
So we make up reasons that it must be done by them instead of us. We rationalize here, there, and everywhere to respond to the question of 'why?'
As Robert Heinlein so correctly put it, "Man is not a rational animal. He is a rationalizing animal." There is a world of difference between the two...
This.