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Connie Davis's avatar

A few years ago a young father lived across the street from me in Cleveland with his family of 4 boys in a very small 2 bedroom apartment. He worked all the time driving a truck and taking care of his family no mother in sight. He left them $25 every morning for food. One of his sons Amarey the youngest and most confident and outgoing came over to my house all the time to visit and walk my dogs. Eventually they moved away his uncle was shot and killed, not enough money for rent whatever and Amarey promised he would be back “to check up on me”. Five years later, now 19, he and his cousin Christian popped up on my porch. We had an impromptu cookout THEY COOKED and Amarey is headed to Otterbein University on a full football scholarship in the fall. He lives with dad who is now married. His dad kept his boys in the right path always regardless of the hardship for him.

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BBS's avatar

When my son was 10 and my daughter was 8 months, their dad/my husband was killed by a drunk driver. We had plenty of male friends and family who could have stepped up, especially for my 10 yr. old son, but they didn't. We were so desperate to feel "normal" and it would have meant so much to the 3 of us to be included. I am urging all of you guys who know someone who is fatherless, for whatever reason, to , at least from time-to-time, reach out. Male figures are vital in a child's life.

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