Once you see it, you’ll never be taken in by them again. It’s actually fun to stymie them. There was another 70’s or 80’s pop psychology thing about not “joining in their dance.” If you don’t play, they’re dead in the water. Of course they’ll get mad and flail around but if you’re steadfast in remaining immune to their ploys, they’ll usually find another victim.
Once you see it, you’ll never be taken in by them again. It’s actually fun to stymie them. There was another 70’s or 80’s pop psychology thing about not “joining in their dance.” If you don’t play, they’re dead in the water. Of course they’ll get mad and flail around but if you’re steadfast in remaining immune to their ploys, they’ll usually find another victim.
Once you see it, you’ll never be taken in by them again. It’s actually fun to stymie them. There was another 70’s or 80’s pop psychology thing about not “joining in their dance.” If you don’t play, they’re dead in the water. Of course they’ll get mad and flail around but if you’re steadfast in remaining immune to their ploys, they’ll usually find another victim.
My counselor says ‘don’t take the rope’.
Yes! Mine said “get off their roller coaster.” That visual helped immensely!!!
That’s a good one!! I like it better!! Thank you!